
Choosing a first instrument for a six-year-old
Size, patience and noise tolerance matter more than talent. A practical guide for parents.

Fifteen minutes on a Tuesday is worth more than an hour on Sunday. This is the least romantic and most useful thing we tell students.
Motor learning consolidates between sessions, not during them. Six short sessions give the brain six chances to file the movement away; one long session gives it one, plus a sore shoulder.
Do not supervise. Ask one question afterwards: “what was the hard bit today?” That is it. Sitting next to a child with a metronome is how practice becomes a punishment.
Skip it and say so at the lesson. Teachers can hear it anyway, and a student who lies about practice learns to avoid the instrument, not the excuse.

Size, patience and noise tolerance matter more than talent. A practical guide for parents.

It is almost never the hands. It is the repertoire, the schedule, and the idea that progress should be linear.

Ten minutes of talk, thirty of playing, and an honest answer about whether this is the right teacher.